Can one conversation change your relationship forever?

12 Questions for Love

A Guide to Intimate Conversations & Deeper Relationships

My upcoming book is to be released by Penguin Random House on January 2nd, 2024. The book is a distillation of learnings and reflections from holding the space for over 1,200 couples to have real conversations over 10 years, building the Emmy award winning series {The And}.

When was the last time you asked your partner a truly thought-provoking question that illuminated what was special about your connection?

Do you desire a deeper connection but not sure how to create it?

Are you concerned that being vulnerable, and leaning into the challenging questions may push your partner away?

This book is your antidote to disconnection. It is the roadmap to a more fulfilled, deeper, more vibrant connection with those important to you.

  • "I’ve known Topaz for over a decade and 12 Questions for Love is a perfect example of the incredibly curious, open, and uniting person behind {THE AND}. These seemingly simple questions distill years of observations encouraging us to discuss what matters most and allow our relationships to thrive. It’s empowering and insightful, with heartfelt solutions to real-life problems, this is the book I wish I could’ve given to my younger self."

    Jodie Whittaker, Actor

  • "When we pose a question to someone we love and listen deeply to their reply, we not only learn, we deepen our human bond with them. In this moving book, Topaz Adizes gives us the profound gift of questions that will transform our relationships, and our lives, forever."

    Jeff Wetzler, Author of “Ask: Tap Into The Hidden Wisdom of People Around You” (Hachette, 2024)

  • "In today’s info-saturated world, answers are easy to come by—but powerful, ‘connective’ questions are what we need more than ever. In this game-changing book, inspired by his award-winning film series, Topaz Adizes shares a dozen questions that can deepen and enrich the most important relationships in your life. Buy this book not just for yourself, but for the people you truly care about."

    Warren Berger, Bestselling Author of “A More Beautiful Question”

Why 12 Questions For Love?

We have found that exploring the relationships around us can create a great deal of fulfillment and satisfaction in one’s life. As Esther Perel acknowledges, improving the quality of our relationships improves the quality of our lives. And we have found from our work over the last ten years that quality conversations improve the quality of one’s relationships.

How do we do that? Having well constructed questions and held in a well intentioned space cultivates deeper and more meaningful conversations. Leaning into what connects us and reaping the benefit of your intimate relationships is this books offering.

Written as an inclusive, interactive guide to having extraordinary conversations, you’ll find:

  • Powerful tools to create safe, sacred spaces for connection

  • 12 questions proven to nurture authentic intimacy—and why they get results

  • Strategies for staying connected in the midst of conflict

  • Confidence to craft better, stronger questions of your own (hint: you’ll get better answers)

12 Questions for Love will guide you to explore ways to feel closer, more secure, and more connected with your partner.

Let it help you uncover the magic that awaits when you dare to be braver, go deeper, and love like never before.